Betrayed Spouse - Round 2

[dale165]

So an update on previous update:

I usually don't like to update often bc W is very wishy washy. She is a walking contradiction therefore my posts are contradictory.

So I agreed to go with her to dinner and out (her idea). We were supposed to go to the beach but I canceled. I shoot her a text yesterday asking about specifics so I can make arrangements for dogs, what to wear etc. I get a call later that night and here we go. Master at beating around the bush. Saying maybe not bc I have blah blah to do. I let her talk with the lame excuses then finally say come one whats the deal. Her reply, "Well OM was supposed to go somewhere and hes no longer going so now hes going to find out we went somewhere together". I went silent for a second. Should I explode or agree is what I was thinking. I finally said look, I'm not on OMs timeclock, if you got something important to talk about you know where to find me. This situation is just not working. She cried then said Ill file divorce paperwork. I calmly said that's your descision. Soon after she texts Im sorry. About the 10th time she has brought up divorce then says Im sorry.

You guys have brought up don't give into her. I tried being somewhat accommodating to her because I know I was such a distant husband. I guess I have no choice now to give her zero accommodations. Im at a place where Im not surprised at her backing out but the disrespect eats at me. Subway called me last night and offered me a lucrative deal. They want me to be the spokesman for their new footlong sh!t sandwhich. I had to turn them down as Im already too full from eating sh!t sandwhiches.

I can see a turning point is near with this woman but the frustration gets to me. Ive done a great job at my GAL but I guess I wasn't prepared as well as I thought for when she contacts me. I was doing great at minding my own business. Plus when we talk, I say one wrong word and W says "see your not good at xyz". She has went from using logical reasons of why we wont work to just plain bs reasons. OM likes music concerts and you don't. Give me a break.

Rant over, sorry.