Hello everyone, sorry I have not been able to post in a long while, I have been deployed sadly. Just a little update on the entire situation with myself and WW. The last everyone heard We decided to work things out, but that didn't last very long. She came to visit for a week, and returned home to finish packing and making ready her move back out to where I was stationed. In that time she rekindled her relationship with OM. Luckily through all the self reflection and changes I had personally gone through I was able to handle that very well. That was about 1 year and 4 months ago. She stated she wanted a divorce and that too much water had run under our bridge, and she was still in love with OM. So I did what anyone I feel would do after years of back and forth,lies and finger pointing. I accepted that this was the end and moved on with my life, it took me a little while to come to terms with it but I have found peace and happiness again. As of two weeks ago I had not received D paperwork. I reached out to WW to find out when I could be expecting the papers as I wanted to keep it cordial and easy as possible. She responded by saying she doesn't, and never wanted a divorce, and she now realized how wrong she was about OM. She also stated she is still completely in love with me and I was the greatest joy and now the biggest regret of her life. but knows she ruined many chances to make things right through the past 3+ years of this affair. Now whether right or wrong I stayed single and worked on me for more than two years, after the previous attempt at reconciliation I met someone around 8 months ago and we have been dating. She knows all about my sitch. She is sweet, caring, supportive, and most everything I would like in a partner. These new emails have stirred an emotional side of me I had been able to come to terms with the past year. So now I'm kinda at a loss how to interpret my feelings. I want to be a good man, I care for the woman I'm dating, but I still have feelings for a WW that refuses to sign divorce paperwork. There are so many factors and I'm trying to rationally think these things through. But ohhh those same emotions, and the history of the past keep creeping up. Any insight would be greatly appreciated.
