WW won't separate

[resolut]

Just a quick update from me and my situation. My W and I have decided to seek a D. We're going to start on mediation in August.

Overall I think DB'ing has worked and continues to work for me. The hardest part of the whole thing was learning to detach and GAL. There's no way I can say I mastered them and everything always seemed to go in cycles for me. I realize I have a long, long way to go but I feel relieved now that I can begin the process of moving on from her and I'm looking forward to redefining who I am without her. Right now I am shifting the focus away from losing the MR and putting everything I can into being there for my children.