holding, Of course I would like to never tell the kids, but we were supposed to tell them two weeks ago and then nothing! I honestly think she chickened out, since this is her doing 100% she will be the one who determines when we talk. I am prepared for whatever comes up and what to say. No more lies in my house, I am and will continue to be an open book for anyone that comes in contact with me! I believe her plan is to talk to them next week, I hate to do it but.... with the link Christy sent me from MWD on how to talk to the kids when one parent wants the divorce and other posts I have read I am prepared to talk to them. It will kill me to look at there faces when this happens, like you said that your youngest son will be crushed, I think all my kids especially my D11 will be devastated. I hate that innocent children are now collateral damage because my WW thinks she can make a better life for herself. I also feel that once they know I can really 180/LRT and detach, this has been hard from me while keeping our sitch from the kids.
