Yes...over analyzing IMO. I have two D's 8 and 6, when they are with their mom I do not contact. I trust they are well cared for and if anything was wrong the W would let me know. I do not reach out to her for anything unless it is to coordinate pick up/drop off....I am trying to give her all the space she needs. Since she moved out there has been no talk of D and this Sat will be 1 month.