holding, seems like we are on the same path. My wife filed 1.5 months ago and I have been trying like mad to figure out what my life would look like with and without her. Finally coming to grips with the prospect of being a great single dad, it's tough to even think about it but my kids give me the strength to press on. Keep doing what you doing, stop the snooping, it does no good to any of us. I did expose my WW affair's and it didn't do anything to her, didn't shock her one bit. If I tell her family that might do it but I'm taking the high road, if I continue to think about it I can't do my thing! Good luck
