NYGal Still Working on It

[Stormchaser]

NYGal - reiterating what I said before, my W finally quit working with OM and the relief was immediate. Yes, we're struggling financially. Yes, we're dealing with bill collectors, cutting back, etc. And YES, I'm finally happy.

I just found out my W made a brief stop back at her job several months later, making sure OM wasn't there, because she missed her friends. You have NO idea how much this set me back. To her it was innocent. She didn't hide it, but she didn't reveal it either.

We're dealing with the fallout now, her mad at me for snooping, me mad at her for visiting the old job for no real reason.

I'm sorry, but them together just won't work for your recovery. Just the mere thought of my W stopping by now is devastating enough.