I might need her to assist me from time to time but since she is a teacher and has to be at school late some night she will need assistance. I guess I am trying to look at the bigger picture. I could stand my ground but in the long run being difficult might hurt me since she is a teacher and keeps them all summer. If things get ugly she could say I don't want them all summer and you need to pay for childcare every other week or pay me to watch them. I don't think she would do that but the longer this goes on and if there is another man I could see a once amicable D turn ugly.
