Is it acceptable to take my kids on a night where I know my wife has a school function? She is a school teacher and has to work late for inservice dates etc. If she communicates those dates to me ahead of time and it is on our schedule is that acceptable?
How often do you need her to take the kids on your scheduled dates? If you need her help every once in a while as well, for your own sake you could be flexible.
You'll probably hear from a lot that you should do it but, not from me. I had my XW's back regarding the kids throughout our M (she works evenings) and that apparently didn't work out. So why should I have her back now? Those working hours certainly didn't do anything good for my M. And now I'm supposed to accomodate them still?
She chose life without me, let her have it. Also she's extremely unflexible due to her working hours when the kids are with me, so she is to no use for me.
Plus I'm way to busy being mysterious and GAL'ing ;-)
M:46 WXW:40 T:20 M:13 D3,D8,D10 BD:11/12/16 D:12/14/16 OM confirmed 01/20/17
