Sandi....thanks. My wife and I are physically separated we have never hit or yelled at each other so that is not a concern. Usually any coordination that is done is through text messages so the only time we may actually converse is during kid swap and that is minimal conversation. Hey, how are you etc.
Is it acceptable to take my kids on a night where I know my wife has a school function? She is a school teacher and has to work late for inservice dates etc. If she communicates those dates to me ahead of time and it is on our schedule is that acceptable? T
he other night she tried to get me to change our schedule because she needed a break......she ended up changing her mind but I told her I couldn't do it because I already had plans. I can see this getting more frequent when school starts.
I have been in her apt a couple of times but can stop that immediately and if she invites me in I will just tell her I will wait outside?
