PS He is very secretive, even about silly things, so sure there is a lot of other stuff I don't know! If I step back, biggest flavour is...avoiding all responsibilities other than work, completely different values and interests, pompous, cold, self-centred, doesn't like being challenged about anything, no empathy or interest in anyone else, shows no remorse or responsibility, seems to feel like a victim as if 'a big boy did it and ran away', depressed, anxious, erased every bit of his old life including me.
Me: 53 H:38 T:20 M:14 BD ILYB etc 10/15, H diagnosed severe depression S 1/16 PA 4/16 H filed 1/17