Everyone is different. There is no telling what your W will choose to do. That's why you have to give her space and spend this time working on you. Doing that is what gives you the best shot at saving your M.
Me: 48 y/o W: 47 y/o Together: > 20 yrs BD: Dec '15, then S 2nd BD: Mar '16, then I filed for D April '16: started piecing
