I love it when everything falls into place. I'm happy to say that the rope is finally and definitely dropped. Gosh it took me a while but the last remaining of feelings I had for my ex are gone. I'm WAY better off without him.
What happened: today was my birthday. Kids got me presents but at the same time said that they had to pay with their own money (that they earned from doing chores for me). Their dad told them to get their pocket money! Both of them are under 10! It got me fuming and I was sad for my kids.
The best part has to come yet. SD wished me a happy birthday and confirmed that ex is no longer with OW because he has been cheating on her with someone else. I had a good laugh when SD told me about it. For the last two years and a half I blamed myself and felt it was my fault all along, but today has proven me that IT ISN'T the case.
I did wonder if OW was the first one he cheated on me with, however it only lasted a minute as I will never know the truth and secondly even if his mum hadn't died now I believe that at one point he would have cheated on me.
I'm so relieved that this huge weight has been lifted of my shoulders as I was considering of taking him back (if he was to come back), but now not a chance. I'm so glad that his latest two actions (mainly the one towards our children) have killed and buried the last feelings I had for him.
I'm free. I had a great night with my friends and looked stunning.
