"When I think about living alone or staying somewhere alone I really do think about being away from literally everyone"
I've heard that twice in my life. It was lies both times.
She might be torn and confused, but I seriously doubt she's being honest. Her wanting to keep OM around is a big problem.
I agree my W is currently trying to sell me on this bs excuse as well. The I suddenly just need my own space to be alone. More like a space to have sex with OM without me being in the way. Please don't fall for the he's just a friend now line.