Hi G , firstly good news that you are making plans for your future and starting to build your business in Devon. Dont worry about Friday until something happens. You are stressing out about it and it may amount to nothing. If need be , go out before with kids and let W get on with it. Its normal to be attached, this takes time. Do what you can to avoid getting involved in Ws business. Obviously if W does something tbat you wouldnt accept from a room mate then you have to.deal with that but post here first so people can advise.