One thing I'm struggling with is striking a balance between spending time with my son and GALing. There are somethings associated with GAL that I prefer my son not be a part of, i.e. going to some events where I want to meet new people.
I remember holding my sons when they were babies. They'd fall asleep with their head on my shoulder. I could feel their warm breath on my neck. It was the most wonderful thing I'd ever experienced.
Now, my oldest son is about to start high school in just over a month. It's hard to believe that much time has passed. I only have about four more years until he's off to college and a couple of years after that, my youngest son will be college bound.
Time goes by incredibly fast, so I'm trying to spend as much time with my sons as I can, while I can. I do some activities without them, but I'm happiest when they're around.
Originally Posted By: Teppo
Also, I wonder how different my situation would be if my W wasn't involved in an EA. I really think she would be more amiable to working things out, but of course I'm mind reading now.
If your wife wasn't having an EA, then you wouldn't be here to ask that question.
