One thing I'm struggling with is striking a balance between spending time with my son and GALing. There are somethings associated with GAL that I prefer my son not be a part of, i.e. going to some events where I want to meet new people.
Also, I wonder how different my situation would be if my W wasn't involved in an EA. I really think she would be more amiable to working things out, but of course I'm mind reading now.
Married 9, Together 13, Divorce in Progress M: 44, W: 44, S: 7 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/19/17