The fact that she called that blackmail is a big red flag for me. It's not blackmail at all, and it's not even unreasonable. It's you standing up for yourself, but letting her know you also want her back.
Me-47,XW-43 S13,S16 M:18 BD:4-23-17 W filed:7-17-17 (5 months of in-house separation hell) W moved out:1-6-18 D granted:2-15-18 Decree signed:3-29-18
