just so you know, I'm in a Divorce Support group here in the US.
It's a great group of 12, (6 men/6 women). It has taught me so so much. Very comforting.
2 weeks ago, for the first time in the groups history, a h snapped and stabbed his wife to death and then shot himself to death.
He was in my group. We will never know what triggered it but he did say he had an "anger management" issue. The police had never been called and there was no history of domestic violence. He admitted he could snap at his kids/wife and get controlling.
And he had always remained calm in class and he attended every session for 39 weeks...
I'm a tad sensitive to tempers, escalations, etc.
Domestic violence is not always a linear path.
Don't freak out. I'm not calling you a monster or killer. I'm saying not to take it lightly.
I'm so sorry that happened with someone in your group!
Thank you for sharing.
Cristy
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