I suggested I drive us so I he could talk for me just as much as him. My intention was to ask him what his plans were, to say I don't want to hear about OW, what are your plans once you have told the kids? I am trying to protect my children and want him to think beyond telling them what life is going to be like, his and theirs. I feel that he sees it as another tick in the box that he has moved on not the actual impact this will have on their little lives. Does that make sense?
On the other hand I get what you're saying about driving together like a M couple and that suits him when it suits. The problem is we don't get any opportunity to talk as the kids are always around or in bed and I don't believe this and their future is a hushed time limited conversation?
Me 46 H 39 M 11 T 14 S 10 DO 8 ILYBNILWY 11.06.17 Separate rooms 11.06.17 ILW OW A ongoing 12.06.17 Kicked H out 23.6.17 H came home 20.8.17
