Who's fault is this again? Can I forgive her?

[roist]

What is your viewpoint on this? You mentioned the opinions of ExW and girls, but not yours.

I understand that the girls were not close to him. That's okay. We are not always close to everyone in our families. I do feel that how he treated them.should not define how they treat him. He didn't contact so they won't either. I see this attitude in many Rs and I see people miss out because of it. I am not saying the girls are wrong, in their decision but just wanted to share this observation. How we treat people should be about us nit them.

I am sorry your exW is still communicating poorly. She is doing her best. It is nice that she is thinking of her father. It is hard to lose a parent.

Best wishes