Single and (soon to be) 60!

[25yearsmlc]

as you can see from my timeline, I'm almost in the same boat.

Not yet a year from the sep, but h is of course been "in a r" for months now. he met her SO SOON after sep, gee, you'd think he'd met her a few months before.

Flaunts her on FB "love of his life", etc. It hurts but there's enough crazy in it that I sometimes can step back and say I am glad to be out of the gong show.

I'm trying to date BECAUSE I want to, not to compete with still h.
Maybe I'm not ready. (Kind of feel sorry for the first guy I date...might not be fun!)

And I won't be posting on fb about OMs unless I am divorced, for one thing AND until I marry the new guy, whom I'm not sure I've even met. No public antics for me proving that I won the SOMEONE PICKED ME prize. H has to prove he blew up a family of 4 people who loved him very much, and I assume that means telling the world he was RIGHT b/c he loves OW so much...all this time it was ME that was the problem

and when the selfish children we raised FINALLY can be all happy for HIM/OW, then he will resume contact and they'll all be happy and I will have not existed...OR I'll "be fine. See? She's alone b/c I was right to leave her OR she's dating OM so she's fine"...

and I will be fine. I'm less lonely now than I was in the m the past 3 years.

KML has some good stories and adventures too.

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