HaWho, thanks for the heads up on paranoia. I have just started to notice this. I told him I wanted to buy a place for D in NYC with the money I make on this house he is forcing me to sell. He said throw your money away if you want. I won't invest in a place that will be underwater in 30 years. I should have just told him I would make sure to buy on a higher floor.
The political paranoia is also full steam ahead and he accused me of having a secret bank account where I deposit my checks (even though he has access to the joint checking account where my check goes in every month).
He told me on the 3rd that he was "taking control of his paycheck" and would transfer the amount in the settlement agreement draft he's had forever (that he now claims he never agreed to) after he was paid. Instead his check showed up in my account as usual and he took on the amount he has been taking.
