Sorry the date did not work out. I am sure there will be triggers in that area for some time. Can you imagine if your date starts talking about getting old, wanting to fly drones, or shows up in bedazzled jeans, etc. You'll be ducking out the bathroom window.
So nice to hear from you!! You rock.
Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13 BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room" 8/15: H back to MBR 10/15: H back in dorm room 1/18: H files, now divorced