Who's fault is this again? Can I forgive her?

[Irish M]

SO it's XFIL birthday today. Girls get an email from their mom dictating to them how it is important to see him ( he's 3 hours away) or at least call him to wish him a happy birthday because he hasn't long to live. He is dying.

I let the girls tell me their logic on not messaging him.
They feel they said their goodbyes. They were not that close and not once even before BD did he call at Xmas or birthdays to wish them one. So they feel no need. Chapter closed.

I know it's XW feeling the guilt and projecting it on the girls because she for many years has neglected her dad. Let her make up for the lost time she caused and not put it on the girls shoulders .

Funny how you can see the projection and where it originates from. A skill I would not of had if I didn't not join this group.

Hope you all had a great weekend. I did a bootcamp run with 25 obstivles with the girls. It was amazing. A little sore lol

Have a great week