Normally, H handled coordinating yard work. But I would always be included in the discussion. A simple, "hey, I'm gonna do this on this day" is just plain courteous.
What ruffles my feathers even more is when the workers arrived on Sunday, they blocked my car in the garage. He moved his car, but didn't bother to tell me they had arrived or that they would be parking their truck on our driveway. I had no idea until I went to leave the house. I opened our garage door and there was a huge truck backed onto our driveway. And H had moved HIS car. I had no idea the workers had arrived until after an hour after they got to the house. (I was wholed up in a room with S, who is sick, BTW.)
All I want is to be informed on what is happening in and around our home. I didn't mind the work and don't quarrel with the fact that it had to be done.
I think I am asking too much of a MLC'er. I just realized this. I don't know why I didn't keep it in mind before. I look at H, talk with him, and at times he seems so together and normal, and I get wrapped up in my own feelings, I forget about the MLC mindset.
