I'd say keep doing what you're doing. Usually, I find that if you don't have a clear direction, that it's best to not make any drastic moves - the path will unfold before you.
I agree with Kaizen on this point. I also say to keep doing what you are doing, because it seems to be working. And I get the feeling that you can have your wife back if you want her. You have to decide for yourself whether you do. If you want motivation to take her back, just think about all the good times you've had with her and think about her good qualities, and all the good things she's done for you. When I compared how my wife was for the ~10 years that I was with her, before she did what she did, to the bad things that she did recently over those 4 or 5 bad months, the good far outweighed the bad, to me. That's a testament to how good she was.. It was my reason for wanting her back. I see so many similarities in your latest update, with how my wife has acted.
M: 33, W: 30 @BD M 7, T 10 BD: Early Dec W left: Late Dec W got stuff: Late Jan W sent S papers: Mid Feb OM cnfrmd: Late Feb
Pain can yield tremendous growth OR everlasting sadness and bitterness.
