I think the biggest thing is to exude confidence.....take care of yourself, work out, eat right, drink water. Get new clothes, etc. Ultimately if it doesn't work for her it will work for the next person. Live in the moment, remain calm, don't take the bait. If my WS notices and says something to me I will just say "Thanks" and move on. If she asks if I am doing it for her I will just "no" it's for myself. I'm not sure if this is 100% accurate but from everything I read that is the direction I am taking.
