I am so sorry that your pup was left out in the heat. I hope that your pup and kitty are doing okay.

Your h is still trying to control you by stating other options if you can't or won't do the things he wants on his own time frame. He knows that if he suggests other options you won't like them and will continue to pick up the slack on his responsibilities. He doesn't like the fact that you are out enjoying yourself and he's not happy w/the life he has chosen.

You've handled your situation w/grace and a whole lot of patience.

As for the date, it will get easier and be more fun as you continue your journey. We all have been right where you and yes, I even use to think about my old xh and wishing he was that way again...but alas...he's not the same at all.

I agree w/bttrfly...you are doing so well. Enjoy your vacation.


Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.