Christy, sorry for not responding to you, had a busy weekend with the family(ignored the WW for the most part) To answer your questions, the WW is 100% sure she wants to divorce as she is deep in love with AP(not PA as he lives 2000 miles away) So she is in a full on EA with someone that is most likely married. I do not care anymore about this, time to move on with my life! I am not moving out of my marital home, not until we sell it and I have to move. I am just looking at my options that will be best for me and my children.