Ha who. Thanks for your support. Yes things could be a lot worse.
Gordie. Maybe the toll of having 5 kids contributed to your W's mlc. That is a lot of cooking, cleaning and issues to handle. I am sure the elder kids help but still they create work and issues too.
R 25 years M 14 years S11 & S13 Working on it alone since Oct 2014 M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years) Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr. Next R chat Aug'17 Still together