ILYBINILWY - OW - what to do next 2

[SJW]

I didn't speak to him in the end as he bumped into one of our best friends this morning and she rang me in tears. She said that she didn't recognise him, couldn't believe what he was saying although it was nothing that I didn't already know and basically he is delusional, she was very upset. I was taking the kids to see family and although he had been invited and the kids were asking him to come he told them he had to work so we came on our own. The kids missed him, I felt awkward and upset so made my excuses and left to go to my Mum's house on my own until everyone came back, my brother took my S home with him and Mum and Dad brought my DO back here later. DO had been sick on the way back and I text H to let him know, no reply, guess he wasn't at work then. On the plus side she's sleeping soundly now right next to me.

Another friend sent me a quote by text tonight out of the blue that read

'To be a good mother whilst my heart was breaking was one of the hardest roles I've ever had to play' she signed off with 'You're doing a grand job' really put it into perspective :-)