Sorry about your FIL and I hope you're children are handling this ok.
I am very glad to hear about the break up between your ex and OW. I have heard similar sentiment from other LBS...that they don't care if WS moves on, as long as it's not with affair partner, and i get it. The affair partners are just sleazy and pathrtic.
Hope you have a great birthday and I wish much happiness for you!
