Sandi2, if I misunderstood the meaning behind your post in another thread, please let me know and I will do my best to stop "assuming".
Kaizen, I agree, my exclamation of my statement about "never" wanting to be in a MR with her because of the person she is today, was wrong; it should not be assumed that my feelings, or her actions, will remain the same in the future. It was derived from the frustration that I have no legal rights where my son is concerned, and my feeling that she isn't living up to her responsibility as a parent (which I found her being a great mother to be very endearing in the past). Luckily he will be 18 soon, then he will be free and able to follow his own path. Thank you for pointing that out.
M - 9 1/2 years 5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA 10/31/16 - We sold house 01/10/18 - D Finalized