H got angry about money yesterday and I am really concerned about his mental state. He actually said to me I need to help OW move out????????? I told him I'm sorry I am not being vindictive, we agreed the finances prior to him getting paid and it is impossible to sort everything overnight but I am doing my best to get it sorted by the end of this month. He looks broken and said he is so stressed out and has nobody to talk to other than me?? Apart from the obvious see a solicitor and protect my assets what do I do?? Do I offer to be listen to what he wants to talk about even if it is about OW, I won't be able to give advice as he will think anything I say is biased because of our R but this person is not my H and I know that. Maybe if he actually says the words he may start to actually question it himself?


Me 46 H 39
M 11 T 14
S 10 DO 8
ILYBNILWY 11.06.17
Separate rooms 11.06.17
ILW OW A ongoing 12.06.17
Kicked H out 23.6.17
H came home 20.8.17



Tomorrow is another day