This weekend I've already enforced the boundaries of no shared time. The main boundary is him still staying the night at the house. He's just using it as a hotel and isn't really spending time there. He doesn't come home from work til 8-9pm and usually sees the kids for 30 mins to an hour then goes on the couch watches TV and goes to bed. We don't talk. Is that okay if that's the situation and there's little to no interaction and he's paying the bills? If I push him to go more he will push to get his own place and won't pay for everything as he is... I cannot afford for him to not pay so that's where my concern comes from.
Just wondering if I let the staying over go if I just don't make myself available to him or partake in family time.
