and for the record, I have also been far slacker here with your h & situation b/c you were pregnant.
You got a sh1t sandwich, I know.
But IF - IF you can rebuild your m...you need to let THIS marriage go.
Your h wants out. You do not have the option of "making it work."
Enforce and live what your dad said or you'll lose whatever emotional leverage you may have.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016