First time here, part 3

[25yearsmlc]

Thank you Gordie and Ownit,

I'm with both of my grown kids, and they are amazing.

these ^^are the blessings to hold onto and remember. ((( )))

I just can't believe I wasn't the "one in a million" whose situation wasn't about him choosing someone else.

Don't be hard on yourself for choosing to believe what your h told you. Besides, you were loyal to him; is it really crazy or stupid to assume he'd be the same?



I just feel so very sad and disappointed.

Yes you do. And my heart is breaking for you.


But tomorrow is a new day. And I WILL SURVIVE!

Oh Yes I know you will. Please Get information from the L, and go from there. NO NEED to blurt out or confront until you know your financial ducks are in a row.

I don't want to panic you or make you feel worse than you already do. But your h has had a head start in this.

As long as he thinks you don't know, you may be able to take some protective actions and waiting a few days to do so, will not be a setback.

Time to go into self preservation mode. Understanding all this and wrapping your brain around it and all the rest

comes after you protect yourself. Make sense?