Thanks ladies. He didn't ask to come. He asked S9 where we were going and S9 asked if he wanted to come but he declined.
Ginger- my dad said that because he saidvleopards don't change their spots. He said things would be great and then life responsibilities and reality would set in and H would always be tempted by the easier option. H told him he se again. He learned the grass wasn't greener and he would spend his life making it up to us.