Thanks Kaizen, we were in a group of her family so I didn't want to make it awkward but I didn't think much of it as I used too.
And yes that's all I could come up with as well. Patience has never been a strong suit of mine but I am surprising myself and working on it. I do believe you are right. I believe you told me awhile back not to go on that trip as well. I listened but talked myself out of it soon after. But now days I am thinking clearer and I did cancel it. It was supposed to be next weekend. I basically told her it would be inappropriate to get feelings mixed up while she's still doing her thing.
M 1.5 years, her affair was before 1 year T 7 Years
