Thread #3 - Mediation

[KevinIn]

I friend who still talks to my wife told me last night that my wife is apparently "devasted" about a bad breakup she had with the other guy and she spends a lot of time crying. My wife hasn't said anything to me about it and we still don't talk about anything other than kid-related logistics.

While I feel marginally satisfied that she's feeling pain from that fantasy relationship not working out, I'm mostly ambivalent about it - I really don't care. I'm taking this as a sign that I'm even more fully detached.

Meanwhile, I've been surprisingly happy lately. I'm really not thinking about her at all. Hardly any anger, almost no sadness. I'm finally able to focus again at work.