WW with affair moved out 4+ weeks ago

[15Stang]

Just an update to my situation.

I found out that my ex-wife will be getting married to her affair partner. It hasn't been 5 months since she abruptly left.

Truly I am not surprised by this news. I figured it would be coming. I learned of this news from the AP's XW. I had asked her to let me know if she ever found out about this type of news. My xw's ap told his kids and they told their mom (ap's xw).

I'm not happy about the news. But in the same sense I'm not stressing about it much either. It's more of a sadness for the type of life that my ex-wife will now get to live. I don't see it being very fulfilling for her.

As for me this is an answer to my prayer. I have been asking God to let me know if I am released from my commitment and my vow. I understand that I'm divorced in a legal sense but I have never truly felt divorced in my heart. I questioned whether I should look to another relationship and start dating or wait to see what will eventually happen. Now I have my answer and I get to move on with my life. For that I am thankful.

I have been working on myself and moving forward with my life. Now I get to move on. I really believe the work I've been putting into myself the last five months (and 3 years) is making this news less emotional. The news is sad but it's not the kind of sad like it was at bomb drop. I more or less figured this was going to happen and it's almost like I'm prepared for it. I'll go on with my day and enjoy my weekend.

Again everyone thank you for your help. I have continued to grow into a better man and I will definitely make a better husband in the future.
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