Thanhs for the insight. You sound like you are doing great but also realistic about he situation. It is good your w is doing well in her mothering and that she sees you as an US for that. I understand kids being a handful as I have and am going through those periods myself. Try 2.5x as many kids--never a dull moment!


Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving