So I have confirmation of H and OW. It's the boss daughter. H said he was working today = lie. He is out with her on his motorcycle.
I also checked the phone bill after this and he was texting while in our home this weekend. So yes he's not committed to our M or making strides, but the last we talked
he just needed space so he could figure out why he feels this way and that we would figure things out.
Him taking space didn't mean it was a bad thing he just needed some time to himself.
SO THEN a few days ago he said he wants out, is done, and is already moved out with some "visitation" and wants his family fix whenever he might later on...
T3, check out the ... site NOT b/c I'm harping on you for being a chump, but b/c you are too mired in the minutia right now to see straight. Not to mention you are exhausted.
Step back. Plan the next week/month or 90 days,
as if h is a possible, but unreliable babysitter whom you may be able to use, along with more reliable ones.
And take back your life.
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M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016