Here again part 9

[25yearsmlc]

I'll have to look into that 25. Thank you.

I'm really not thinking about the future because it overwhelms me right now.


Understood. Truly. All you "need" to do is deal with today/this week. My new mantra about things I cannot handle right now is, "that's for future 25 to worry about..."

The site I mention is a help - Just knowing others are in your boat, who happen to be witty.


Train- H said in the conversation there's nobody else. I said you can look at me and tell me you haven't been around town with another woman or been talking to someone. He said nope. I Just said I'm not stupid H and didn't say anything else.


I don't get this.^^ On one hand, you out and out ask him a question you know will not result in an admission.

And I thought you said you had proof. If so, what's with not telling him, and stopping the nonsense?

Why even ask him? What would his admitting "yes there IS an OW" do for you? And what are his continued denials doing?

If you have no solid proof, AND you also know he wants out of the marriage, I'm not clear on what difference it all makes now.

Especially since it's what he harps about all the time.


He told me that he only left because he couldn't be with me because of how I think of him as a liar and a cheater and that's how I really think of him.



yawn...is Ground Hog Day over yet?

He said I was calling him every day calling him a liar and a cheater. I didn't respond. Because I know that's so far from the truth.


I didn't want to get into the OW conversation besides but you did - and I'm not arguing about it.

I'm just confused by your insistence on discussing it or thinking about it now, with or without evidence. Please explain to me why it matters now.

This man is out the door. He is AWOL. He also lies, which you know for a fact.

I'm so sorry to be dense on this but What specifically are you fishing for?



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If I see them out or get more evidence then I may change that.

to what end?