Cali, it looks like you're starting to get through to your W, but don't rush back into pursuit mode. Let her do the initiating now. If she wants to make this work, let her show you that. Like you said, the ball's in her court.
About you not sending your letter - I had this elaborate letter/poem/story I'd planned to send my W, and I decided to hold off. Looking back I'm really glad I didn't send it. It was too emotional and there was too much pressure. You might feel different about about not sending your letter after you've had some time to process things.
Your trip to see your W may not have really made much difference in the end, but I respect that you did what you felt you needed to do. I think we can all agree that she did sit up and notice when she felt like she was really losing you.
Me-47,XW-43 S13,S16 M:18 BD:4-23-17 W filed:7-17-17 (5 months of in-house separation hell) W moved out:1-6-18 D granted:2-15-18 Decree signed:3-29-18
