It hurts and then, yes, it gets better. It's NOT Linear so don't get mad at yourself for backslides. They happen.
Please do yourself a favor and check out the site ... b/c she is spot on in how she portrays WAS's, and she is helpful AND hilarious and she lists various ways we can get gas lighted by our spouse. It helps us to know we are not fools to believe in a spouse, and to be gentle with ourselves. Plus, she's hilarious.
Your h is Not a special unicorn. This is round 2, and there's a new baby here and yet, he's being - how he's being.
So Even if he woke up, slapped his forehead and said "OMG I want back in!"
you'd need months or years to work it out. (And that might still happen!)
But It cannot happen for a long time, if ever.
So, Dig into your deep wells of resilience. Your sons need you. You need you.
((( )))
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