I still struggle with letting go and not wondering what he is doing. While we have 50/50 custody of the kids H is not happy because I am not flexible with him when it's convenient. I struggle because I know the kids need their Dad, but he is the one who didn't want a family or marriage anymore so I feel like I don't need to go out of my way to make life easier for him.
Hello mm2bs,
I'm so sorry for the situation you are in.
You are so smart to recognize that you are not the one that needs to make things more convenient for H.
Originally Posted By: mm2bs
I continue to go out with friends and do things for myself when the kids are with their Dad, but any other suggestions on ways to help me move past this? It's been so long I thought things would be better by now....and while they definitely are I still have soo far to go
Focus your time, effort, and energy into being the best mm2bs and Mom that only a fool would leave.
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Cristy
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