Boston Dad in need of Help

[Teppo]

Teppo, very sorry to hear about the D papers being served. Hang in there, we're here for you!

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I've held my tongue for over 2 months and since she filed, I figured I've got nothing to lose by telling her to go to the guest room.

I'm curious if you told her you knew she filed for D? Also what was her reaction to being told to sleep in the other room? I'm guessing she probably welcomed the idea.

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I didn't tell her that I knew she was going to file. Though she didn't dispute my statement. She was annoyed at being told to leave the MBR, and hasn't complained about the move - at least to me. I know she bitched to her mom about it.

When we tell our son that we're getting a divorce I want to make it clear to him that this isn't "Daddy's idea, but that I have to do what Mommy wants". Is this the right approach? I don't want to lie to him and give him the impression that I want a divorce.