Teppo, very sorry to hear about the D papers being served. Hang in there, we're here for you!
Originally Posted By: Teppo
I've held my tongue for over 2 months and since she filed, I figured I've got nothing to lose by telling her to go to the guest room.
I'm curious if you told her you knew she filed for D? Also what was her reaction to being told to sleep in the other room? I'm guessing she probably welcomed the idea.
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Her mother is against the divorce and I've spoken to her about my feelings and how I suspect an EA. She doesn't seem to understand the significance of an EA and I've decided to stop talking to her about our problems.
Yeah, it's not a good idea to talk to friends and family because they WILL tell your W and she will feel like you're trying to rally everyone against her. Just confide in us here or a friend that has no connection with your W.
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Our Deacon is trying to arrange a meeting with her today, but I doubt she'll meet with him. I just can't believe that this woman who I feel in love with and is the mother of our son has come to hate me.
I doubt she hates you, I'm sure her feelings are the classic "ILYBINILWY". She may be acting cold and callous, but that's just the WAS's way of creating some space and not "sending the wrong signals". They seem so afraid we'll actually think they might change their mind that they go out of their way to show that they are resolute. It's all part of the WAS playbook, try not to take it personally. It'll go away once she no longer feels pressured. By the way, if she quits seeing the Deacon then count yourself lucky. That's just another form of pressure on her.
